Was working yesterday for night shift when suddenly CH called me and told me bad news about CE's dad. Was extremely shock and was really very sorry to hear that, my deepest condolences and hope he could pull through this tough period with us together. I finished work in the morning, intended to visit CE in the noon. Just before i went out, mum ask where i was heading to so i told her what happen. Mum than told me that it was best i could avoid visiting funerals because she went to pray for the family and we are not supposed to participate in "XI SHI" or "SHANG SHI"(eg. bday party or funeral) within 12 days and today is only day 4. Sorry i couldn't make it, but i promise after day 12 i will be there to see you for the first thing. May uncle Tan rest in peace, and i sure he will.

My deepest condolences.

Thinking about what happen to CE teaches me a lesson, that's to cherish everything before it's too late to do so. Now that this wakes me up, i guess i had to cherish my dad too because it's a blessing to see each other daily. Sad thing is we did not really talk to each other for nearly 7yrs. It's not what i want, but it's really very hard to start communicating, but i know my dad still cares for me alot.